The Friendly Attitude - Attracts

Being accepted by others make us feel kinda wow & special about ourself. In general having a pleasing personality is always appreciable.Our social behaviour is having a huge impact on our social attraction . The way we speak ,the way we react ,the way we handle everything matters most. You may have questions like ,why should i please people ? well,there is a huge difference between pleasing personality and people pleasing person . When you hold the right personality it reflects the positive energy from you . People pleasing is kinda unhealthy & hard thing which is quite difficult to carry out & out of our point . Let's discuss the pleasing personality ,carrying the right attitude at the right time is strength . For personal life,professional life or spiritual life the right attitude is the only thing which drives you on the right track. It's not difficult task to be generous ,or to be kind . It's not a challenging habit smiling is super easy this can make someone feel good . Greeting someone with a smile or saying kind warm words can be really appreciable .

Let me explain you with one simple example from my personal travelling experience. I have been to a trip near north sea,europe. I stayed there in a hotel ,there was a small shop .when i shopped there for some greeting cards to gift my parents ,the shop keeper listened it , he gave me a beautiful card told me give this to your parents & tell them to visit this place and we'll be happy to book your accomodation here . I was bit surprised , i learned a huge lesson there he was very friendly which insisted me to purchase stuffs from his shop ,i was very comfortable to shop there. Second his words were so kind & he was generous that is quite effective for creating an impact  . This is the clever strategy in business to develop customer relationship & build up strong goodwill. Also he was inviting ,as well as advertising his hotel indirectly . What was the base for all this? pleasing personality with pleasing attitude. Being amicable is good ,you can adopt yourself easily to the environment. However some people are naturally friendly ,it is not so easy for everyone still not a big deal to give a try ;) lets switch towards the friendly attitude .

If you find it is difficult for you,come on still you can give a try gradually you may increase it. Let me share with you another example like , the water current in running water shapes the pebbles like  rolling cask likewise ,your gradual development result you with an improvement.The biggest lesson i have learned in my life is we should be happy and we should make someone happy . When you are happy you feel good about your life ,when you make someone happy that time every smile gets you some kind of blessing .